I've been realizing a lot of girl problems these days happen because they give a boy their all and the boy leaves after he gets what he wants. Boys laugh and move on to their next victim and girls cry, and hurt for a while wondering why it happened the way it did. Even though guys do this, and it really sucks, girls are stupid for letting it happen. But then again you have to think about why the girl let that happen.. Because they fell really hard for this boy who told her everything she wanted to hear but in the end, it was all just a game to him.

I don't think some people really understand how bad it feels when a girl gets used like that. It's not fun being known as just a "kill" It hurts like hell knowing you gave yourself to someone who never really cared in the first place, someone who just wanted to fuck you.


I think most girls have been down that road where they liked someone and would do almost anything for them, they thought that boy felt the same, turns out they didn't and they leave when you give them what they want.

Guys think it's just really funny and awesome to get a kill and than disappear, meanwhile the girl is left there, broken and vulnerable and thinking what happened? and what she did to make him leave. And she replays every memory in her head trying to figure out what SHE did wrong when the guy never really liked her in the first place. You know, it really SUCKS having that happen to you. Guys don't really realize how much it effects girls when they get used. It's not a good feeling. When a girl gets hurt like that, some of them just shut off. Some of them push themselves away from people because they're scared it's going to happen to them again. And then those boys who actually like a girl and tries to be with them wonder why the girl is pushing away or running away. It's because we're scared that they're all the same. We don't want to feel like we're worth nothing so we run away so we don't have the chance of being broken again.

Then you hear guys talking about how girls play mind games and how they change their mind too much, it's because YOU did this. There's always a boy or boys to blame for the way we act towards other guys. Yeah, girls are starting to play games too because thats the only thing they can do without getting hurt. Now everything is just a game. Nothing is real anymore, and if people actually were real these days, the game wouldn't exist and less people would get hurt. People always think they're real.. they hate when people call them fake, but let's face it, we're all fake. We hide what we feel, we lie about what we feel, and we pretend like nothing really matters anymore. We say things we don't mean. We're all just fake.

You think that girls would learn and stop letting guys use them and walk all over them. And sometimes, you do learn and you try to be strong, but when a guy you like tells you you're beautiful, and tells you he wants to be with you .. it's hard staying strong, and sometimes you give in just to find out that you get let down in the end.

I'm not saying this has been happening to me, cause it hasn't but i have a few friends and even some girls i barely talk to that i have seen get used by a boy and their so oblivious to the fact that the boy doesn't like them. I'm not going to sit here and tell you that this hasn't happened to me because it has. I know what it feels like, liking someone so much that you would do anything for them because you think they'll just like you that much more. I know what it feels like when that boy tells you you're amazing and beautiful and that you're the only girl for him.. and so you fall even harder than you already are, and in the end, they leave and your left there.. alone, with a broken heart, blaming yourself for everything HE did.

I think almost every girl will fall for it at least once in their life. It's hard to figure out if a guy really likes you or not. Some guys say anything that makes you believe they want to be with you, but really they don't. Girls don't fall for their tricks, we all know how guys fuck girls over, it's time to smarten up and not give yourself to a boy so easily. Even if you like them so much it hurts, don't give yourself away so easily.